Stretching the grocery budget to feed college students lunch after church. Quitting a job or shutting down a side hustle to care for family. Neglecting social media feeds to rest and refocus. Waking early to spend time in the Word.
Peter, Andrew, James, and John dropped their fishing nets and obediently followed Christ into a wildly unbalanced life of faithfulness (Matthew 4:18-22). Our faithful obedience may or may not look that extreme, but it will look more like sacrifice and slow growth and death to self than serene, manageable balance.
On the flip side, sometimes our lives are thrown off-balance because we are being poor stewards of what God has given us. Often my tearful rants to my husband about being so overwhelmed eventually reveal sinful control issues or laziness or skewed priorities. Instead of abiding in Christ and stewarding wisely, I’ve foolishly gone rogue -- and no perfectly executed to-do list or Netflix binge can balance me.
R.C. Sproul said, “Fundamentally, stewardship is about exercising our God-given dominion over His creation, reflecting the image of our creator God in His care, responsibility, maintenance, protection, and beautification of His creation” (Genesis 2). What a beautiful responsibility we’ve been given, to each steward what the Father portions us. But so often we take on more than our portion and become poor stewards of good gifts. We squander time and energy on empty pursuits, or chase leisure and distraction. May we confess and repent instead: “Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways” (Psalm 119:37).
Sometimes our pursuit of balance is a carefully disguised craving for comfort or control. We want life to be easy and to feel we’ve got it handled. We cling to expectations of what our schedule should be like, how our relationships will go, how our life plans will play out. How we respond when these plans go awry reveals what our hearts are treasuring. Does life feel off-balance because our expectations are unrealistic or because we’re holding them too tightly? Are we more focused on getting what we want than on surrendering to the Sovereign One, whose way is perfect (Psalm 18:30)?
Reframing our pursuit of balance in these biblical terms can help us see more clearly the state of our hearts -- what it is we’re truly seeking. Balance is not our prize; Jesus Christ is. When we abide in Him we have all we need to live a life of faithful obedience (John 15). Remember Christ’s call: “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle … and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28–30). In the gospel Jesus offers us a yoke-exchange, and his easy yoke and light burden are better than balance.